My life is about the continuing expression of who I truly am. I am the creator of my own experience, of my own reality, and all my power is in my now. There is nothing I cannot be, do, or have. I know the value of my preferences. I know the value of my perspective.
The basis of my life is absolute freedom. When someone attempts to thwart my own creation, I feel an immediate discord within myself. There can never come enjoyment from being dissuaded from my own powerful impulses. But over time, with enough pressure from those who surrounded me, who seemed convinced that their practiced way was more valid than my way (and, therefore, ultimately better), I gradually began to release my determination to guide my own life. I found it easier, for the sake of getting along, just to adapt to their ideas of what was best for me, rather than trying to figure it out myself. This has led me to go crossways of my natural current, and contrary to my very soul. I am the creator of my own experience, and there is satisfaction in intentionally guiding my own life.
I am taking my personal thoughts beyond which it has been before — and through contrast, I will come to conclusions or decisions that align with my desire… which means enthusiasm, passion, and triumph. This is my choice. My desires and beliefs are just thoughts and do not require me to use words for the sake of my own purposes or to convey for the benefit of others — I am allowed to just feel it in my being. “I desire this”, “I adore this,” “I appreciate this,” and so on. Desire is the beginning of all attraction. [My life is about the continuing expression of who I truly am. There is nothing I cannot be, do, or have].
Working towards self-growth is the most important factor towards self-acceptance. I cannot truly accept who I am if I don’t know who I am. I love myself for who I am and accept myself for my attitude and self appearance and am not being judgmental of myself and my failures. I am able to admit and accept my shortcomings. I accept that my past doesn’t define me and that I don’t need to dwell on it. When I see my mistakes, I can learn to live with them and from them. Accepting my current state exactly as I am, is the only thing that I can control, so it’s my responsibility to make the most out of this moment. By seeing my mistakes and learning to live in the moment, I will be able to see areas to improve in my life that I may not be so proud of.
When we don’t take chances on ourselves and we stay in a feeling of being stuck, then we actually create more anxiety on ourselves. Humans are social creatures with the need to experience new things. If we stay stuck doing the same thing, then we get bored and wonder what life is all about. Part of growing into myself and having the confidence to accomplish whatever goals I set for myself, is taking care of myself so I can feel better about myself.
If I think negatively, I am putting forth negative energy into the universe and negative things will happen. When I promote positivity, I will put out positive energy into the universe and positive things will happen to me. The way I view life has to do with how I think and perceive it. The choice is ultimately up to me.
Changing my mindset into positivity is probably one of the most important things I can do to take steps towards self-growth. Part of knowing who I am is not only understanding the good, but is also about learning what is holding me back from fulfilling my full potential. Accepting my faults and improving my weaknesses are just a small part of learning what I can accomplish when it comes to personal growth and self-esteem. A negative and unhelpful state of mind is the cause of most problems. Negative thinking holds us back. Our inner critic will stop us from moving forward. If I feel miserable and lonely, it’s my mind that has developed this feeling, this thought process, and this reality.
I am always in charge of my choices. My decisions define the outcome from which I can learn from. Having the belief that others are responsible for my misfortunes, is to have the belief that I lack the power to change or to choose. No one person has the power to change my outlook or my mistakes. It’s me and me alone that has this power.
My world revolves around the way I perceive things, and how I choose to think. If I choose to think negatively, all I’m going to see are negatives and I will have a negative self-image. If I choose positivity, then I can develop positivity in the way I see things and there will be opportunities for growth. Self-acceptance is the first step towards gaining self-esteem and confidence.
We are what we think about. We behave based on how we choose to react to things. I am not defined by my past or what someone else has said about me. I am who I want to be at this moment. I am more than what my inner critic tries to tell me. Negative thoughts that flow into our mind do not control our reality. Emotions don’t control who I want to be either. Other people’s perceptions of me are false. How someone sees me is their own perception and it is rarely ever true. A person with high self-esteem knows that another’s perception of them is just a personal projection on how they see themselves.
Let go of control. We must let go of what we can’t control, stay calm, relax, and don’t take everything as a big deal. By letting go of what I can’t control, I can focus on the present moment. The only moment that matters is what I decide to do now. Part of overcoming fear is staying positive in stressful situations and being mindful of my thoughts, actions, and what I can control in the moment.
Self-worth is only how I choose to believe it. When I believe I am worth it and choose to take care of myself my thoughts will change. It’s OK not to feel OK sometimes. I am a work in progress. Everything I have experienced today is part of what has made me. Life is about taking risks and learning to focus my attention on what matters most. I must give myself time to work on myself and also reward myself when I have made progress. I am a work in progress and I am not perfect.
All we have is today. The past is done and uncontrollable. The future is never for sure or set in stone.
I accept that I am not perfect and accept the idea that not everyone will have the same perceptions and get along.
The reason for failing was not done on purpose and that is why they are called mistakes. Learning from my mistakes is all I can do right now. No one can control the future, not even my inner critic. I am only human and I am going to do the best I can.
TAKE AWAY
How can I get there from here?
I need to make where I am okay and accept where I am in life..
I need to make peace FIRST before I can get anywhere else..Well, how can I make where I am alright, and the right place?
The Law of Attraction is about momentum and the Law of Attraction says, “that which is like itself is drawn”.
Where “I am” IS “what is becoming more,” so it is important to be in a place where “what is becoming more” IS “what I want to become.”So if I want to be in a place that feels better than where I am, and if where I am doesn’t feel good, then I can’t get there from there.
